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ON LOSING YOUR CHRISTMAS LIST
It was Christmas, and I was beholding a holiday spectacle of neatly wrapped and colorful presents. There were scarlet red boxes with...

Nick Vleisides
Dec 8, 20219 min read


The World According to Burt Bacharach
In the mid-sixties I recall when my parents, trying to be hip with the times, purchased a console stereo for our home. It was a rather...

Nick Vleisides
Oct 21, 20214 min read


Used to Go to Church: "That's me!"
Recently I spent a day at a high school speaking to health classes about anxiety, depression and suicide. As a law enforcement chaplain,...

Nick Vleisides
Oct 1, 20213 min read


It Is Finished! No! Wait! I'm Not Quite There Yet!
Franciscan priest and Catholic mystic writes in his book, The Universal Christ, "The Christian life is simply becoming who we already...

Nick Vleisides
Sep 15, 20212 min read


SAVED TO...
My buddy Ron and I decided to take my dad’s eighteen foot outboard boat out for a late afternoon shark fishing adventure. We were just...

Nick Vleisides
Jul 21, 20215 min read


I Think, Therefore I Think
I think this. I don’t know this, but I think it. I’ve never liked the concept of hell, the place of eternal torment and separation from...

Nick Vleisides
Jun 25, 20215 min read


Death Changed Me
I think a lot about death. Can't help it. I've been on hundreds of chaplain calls over the years where a death has occurred. Almost...

Nick Vleisides
May 20, 20213 min read


The 150,000
The San Ramon Valley, where I live and serve as a first responder chaplain, has a population of around 170,000. It is located in the...

Nick Vleisides
May 1, 20215 min read


Heaven or Not
Just got home and TV was on. A commercial caught my attention which was addressing something about heaven. It caught my attention...

Nick Vleisides
Mar 31, 20213 min read


If It Ain't Broke, Don't Fix It!
I don’t know. So many people around where I live used to go to church. They’ve been there. Done that. If they walked into a church on any...

Nick Vleisides
Mar 20, 20212 min read


Fleetwood Mac on Any Sunday
I think it must have been maybe the summer of 1975, take or add a year. My buddy Bill and I drove up from San Clemente to the University...

Nick Vleisides
Mar 1, 20214 min read


The Older I Get
The older I get the more I am willing to admit that I don’t have all the answers and that I do not need all the answers. I’m not saying...

Nick Vleisides
Feb 9, 20212 min read


OBSERVATIONS
In A Grief Observed, CS Lewis journals his thoughts and emotions after the tragic loss of his wife/lover who succumbed to cancer. Over...

Nick Vleisides
Jan 15, 20213 min read


For The Love of Christ
Many of the chaplain call outs I or my chaplain team responds to are for older adults who suddenly passed away at home. I would not call...

Nick Vleisides
Dec 21, 20204 min read


To Infinity and Beyond!
My twenty-one-year-old son happened to be passing through the kitchen the other night. That’s where the food is. He’s not a man of many...

Nick Vleisides
Dec 7, 20204 min read


Pray for Safety
"Lord, keep him safe. Dear, God watch over her." Have you ever prayed that way? Do you now? I sure have. But in recent years I have...

Nick Vleisides
Nov 23, 20203 min read


The Point of Jesus
The point of Jesus was to reveal God. However, who Jesus revealed God to be, was diametrically opposed to the exacting, condemning,...

Nick Vleisides
Nov 10, 20201 min read


The Bliss and the Ache
"I do not know what will kill me first–the beauty of this world or the sorrow of it. There is a bliss that no amount of ache can steal...

Nick Vleisides
Oct 29, 20201 min read


Church Leavers
The basis for my book is the answer I received when I ask people on the scene of a tragic loss, "Do you have a faith?" Response 90% of...

Nick Vleisides
Oct 16, 20202 min read


Things Change. Does God Matter?
Sticking with the motorcycle theme from last post I want to speak about how things change. Eight of us bikers gathered in Las Vegas on...

Nick Vleisides
Oct 5, 20202 min read
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